pls. reply on my email asap.. tnx! my email add maestreliaann@yahoo.co.uk

i know this is something confusing for everybody who will be reading this so i’ll put it this way.

H – husband
w – wife
E – ex girlfriend. went abroad without formal break-up with H.
However, she knows that H got married.
c – concubine,
F – Father of H

here we go.

May 2006 – H and W were married. H source of income is to drive their family’s public utility jeepney. W resigned from her work.

January 2007, the first baby was born. W shouldered almost all of the hospital bill.

April 2007, W went back to work because H income is not enough to support the growing need of the family.

June 2007 H and C had affairs. w keep on asking H about it because she heard rumors about it but H keep on denying until october 2007 when W knew about the relationship. H asked for forgiveness and promised in front of W’s family and so W forgives.

F is advising H to leave W for his personal reasons when in fact he agreed on H and W marriage.

January 2007, second baby was born premature d and stayed in the hospital for 14 days. W and family paid all the hospital bills except for 3,000 pesos which was borrowed from H sister.

june 2008 H decided to work abroad. W helped him financially. unfortunately he was not deployed because of the global economic crises. however, the agency promised to work on it but was not sure when he will be deployed.

December 2008, H was employed in transporting company. H seldom goes home for his reasons that his schedule is shifting and jeepneys are not available late in the evening when in fact he can ride on a taxi if he wishes. so he sleeps on his sisters apartment.

december 2008 E went home from abroad and meets H on his work. they then have communications via text messages which W incidentally reads on H cellphone.

W keep on asking H about E but H keep on denying that they have an affair with E. until one day w captured a cellphone from H owned by E with “i love you, where you” on the outbox with H sim card on the phone. W and H now have misunderstandings and quarrels. .

Late April 2009 H and W has great quarrels on phone calls and text messages. H no longer goes home. E regrets to talk to H in person. while F keep on advising H to leave W. H did not give any financial support to W and kids.

June 3, 2009 W incidentally meet E and they talk together in a nice way. W asked her about H and she said there was nothing about them but friendship. However, She acknowledge that they date together with H.

W and family asked H and family for a talk to possibly solve the worsening problem between W and H. However, only H’s mother appeared and told W’s family to postpone the talk because H and F are not available.

June 12 W and kids went out of town because W felt that there was really something going on between E and H.

W received only a few text messages from H. August when W received an sms from H saying he does not know how to call her and that was his latest txt message. no more communications after.

November when W heard the news that H and E are living together and that E is pregnant.

Late December, w called H and told him that she forgives him and E. and told H that she respects his decision.

January 26, F sends an sms to W that his willing to give allowances for the kids and told her to go home with the kids so they can talk the matters over.

February 9, W and kids went home. H and F knows about their arrival. still they did not make any action up to this date.

February 13 E gave birth to H son. meaning E is already pregnant when they talk with W on june 2008 and they already have affair when W and H has great quarrels.

Hope this one will be given an attention. W and family does not know what to do anymore. Hope you can help. It will be very much appreciated. Thank you.

1. Can W sue H and E? or will it be on an amicable settlement only? if so, what should we do first, and then next?

2. Can W seek for his financial support without having to go to a lawyer? Do we have laws wherein the financial support would be automatically deducted from his Monthly salary? This is to make sure the children gets it every month. or can W open an account under the kids name where H will deposit their allowances?

3. Can H use his real property like land or the family owned jeepney to give as his financial support to the kids and then no more monthly allowances?

4. If W is going to file a case, what is the estimate expenses for all the fees she needs to pay? What case should W file?

5. If on an amicable settlement only, what legal claims should W put in the agreement?

Thanks a lot sir.

3. Can I seek for his financial support without having to go to a lawyer? I am avoiding conflict with him that might affect our relationship with the kid in the future. How bout a DEMAND LetTer? What is it and what legal claims should I put in there?

4. If I am going to file a case, what is the estimate expenses for all the fees I need to pay? What case should I file?
Tenks a lot sir