Comments on: Infidelity of the mother in child custody cases http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/ Philippine laws and legal system (JLP-Law blog) Sat, 19 May 2012 09:49:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: artianty http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/comment-page-2/#comment-22285 artianty Thu, 17 May 2012 11:55:00 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/#comment-22285 I'm a mother of two. My eldest daughter is 3yrs old and youngest daughter is 11months old. My marriage is falling apart. My husband filled an annulment. As per the papers handed to me by his lawyers, as soon as they found out that I have a boyfriend my husband will get full custody of the kids. Do I have a counter for this? What are the things I need to ask (like a list) of things I need to consider for present and future support for the kids? I don't have any clue of what are the things I need to ask as a support. I don't earn that much compare to him who earns much much bigger than I, do I have a right to asked for financial assistance for utilities and groceries? How yaya? I need to work and I don't have family here in manila. Should I demand for a yaya for the kids knowing that he is so capable of providing one? I’m a mother of two. My eldest daughter is 3yrs old and youngest daughter is 11months old. My marriage is falling apart. My husband filled an annulment. As per the papers handed to me by his lawyers, as soon as they found out that I have a boyfriend my husband will get full custody of the kids. Do I have a counter for this? What are the things I need to ask (like a list) of things I need to consider for present and future support for the kids? I don’t have any clue of what are the things I need to ask as a support. I don’t earn that much compare to him who earns much much bigger than I, do I have a right to asked for financial assistance for utilities and groceries? How yaya? I need to work and I don’t have family here in manila. Should I demand for a yaya for the kids knowing that he is so capable of providing one?

]]> By: denniessss http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/comment-page-2/#comment-22254 denniessss Fri, 04 May 2012 09:23:45 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/#comment-22254 i have an issue with my wife,we are filing a case for annulment. Bot of us have been cheating on each other. i always supported my wife and her 2 kids from a different relationship and we have a son of our own. Now she is finding a new bf on the internet and wants to bring our son abroad. she don't even know the man. Can i file a case so i can have custody over our son who is only 18 months old? i am a foreigner with a good job and many means to provide for my son.. i have an issue with my wife,we are filing a case for annulment. Bot of us have been cheating on each other. i always supported my wife and her 2 kids from a different relationship and we have a son of our own. Now she is finding a new bf on the internet and wants to bring our son abroad. she don’t even know the man. Can i file a case so i can have custody over our son who is only 18 months old? i am a foreigner with a good job and many means to provide for my son..

]]> By: lostsoul http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/comment-page-2/#comment-22063 lostsoul Thu, 08 Mar 2012 10:26:37 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/#comment-22063 will a mother can ask for support from the father of her daughter even if they are not married? even if she's having a relationship with another man and the father of his daughter found out about it. now they are separated... is there a law stating the amount of which the father will give to his daughter? will a mother can ask for support from the father of her daughter even if they are not married? even if she’s having a relationship with another man and the father of his daughter found out about it. now they are separated… is there a law stating the amount of which the father will give to his daughter?

]]> By: donna http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/comment-page-2/#comment-20970 donna Thu, 03 Nov 2011 00:38:00 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/#comment-20970 atty fred, hi. i left my husband and took all 5 kids with me because of neglegence and he was abusive. i have documents like blotter and medico legal to prove this. then after 2 months he asked me to go out with the kids because he wanted to see them and buy them toys whatever. so i said ok. since i was in the office that time, i said to my kids that their father will fetch them and i will go with them after work. 6pm i was out of the office and went to our meeting place. they were not there. i called him and he said that i will never see them again. it's been two weeks and he started texting me. he is accusing me that i'm having an affair with my neighbor which is not true. the kids said that they saw me kissing the guy and having sex in front of them. which i know my kids will never say such things. and he will file a case against me about this. pls help me. i want to know what steps should i take to get my kids back. aaron 12 bimi 10 naomi 7 hermione 3 and my eldest is with me. atty fred,

hi. i left my husband and took all 5 kids with me because of neglegence and he was abusive.

i have documents like blotter and medico legal to prove this.

then after 2 months he asked me to go out with the kids because he wanted to see them and buy them toys whatever.

so i said ok. since i was in the office that time, i said to my kids that their father will fetch them and i will go with them after work.

6pm i was out of the office and went to our meeting place. they were not there. i called him and he said that i will never see them again.

it’s been two weeks and he started texting me. he is accusing me that i’m having an affair with my neighbor which is not true.

the kids said that they saw me kissing the guy and having sex in front of them. which i know my kids will never say such things.

and he will file a case against me about this.

pls help me. i want to know what steps should i take to get my kids back.

aaron 12
bimi 10
naomi 7
hermione 3
and my eldest is with me.

]]> By: donna http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/comment-page-2/#comment-20920 donna Sat, 29 Oct 2011 04:39:39 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/#comment-20920 gud day atty! i'm married with 5 kids. hiniwalan ko po ang asawa ko dahil nananakit, ngwawala kung di ko pinagbibigyana ng gusto nya...may mga medico legal to prove and blotters as well. i took all five kids, dahil alam ko di cla aasikasuhin ng tatay nila. at ayaw ng mga bata sa tatay nila. pero when i was at work he took the kids and i have no idea where. he's texting me accusing me na i'm having an affair with my neighbor. sabi nya mga kids ko daw ang witness nya. wherein alam nila na ngmamalasakit lng ung tao sa amin dahil sa situation namin. i want to know kung pwede nya ba gawing grounds un para ideprive ako from my kids? and i need advise on how i can get custody since maliliit pa mga anak ko. he took the kids out of anger,,,kasi ayaw ko na bumalik sa knya. and he's been texting me childish things na sobrang non-sense and para syang nababaliw sabi daw ilalayo nya at he make sure a di ko na makikita mga kids ko. sabi ng pamankin nya nglalakad daw ng visa at kasama mga kids mgabroad...di ba kelanagn ng consent ko? pls help me get my kids back and how to process this kind of situation legally thank you in advance. gud day atty!

i’m married with 5 kids. hiniwalan ko po ang asawa ko dahil nananakit, ngwawala kung di ko pinagbibigyana ng gusto nya…may mga medico legal to prove and blotters as well.

i took all five kids, dahil alam ko di cla aasikasuhin ng tatay nila. at ayaw ng mga bata sa tatay nila.

pero when i was at work he took the kids and i have no idea where.
he’s texting me accusing me na i’m having an affair with my neighbor.

sabi nya mga kids ko daw ang witness nya. wherein alam nila na ngmamalasakit lng ung tao sa amin dahil sa situation namin.

i want to know kung pwede nya ba gawing grounds un para ideprive ako from my kids?

and i need advise on how i can get custody since maliliit pa mga anak ko.

he took the kids out of anger,,,kasi ayaw ko na bumalik sa knya.

and he’s been texting me childish things na sobrang non-sense and para syang nababaliw

sabi daw ilalayo nya at he make sure a di ko na makikita mga kids ko.

sabi ng pamankin nya nglalakad daw ng visa at kasama mga kids mgabroad…di ba kelanagn ng consent ko?

pls help me get my kids back and how to process this kind of situation legally

thank you in advance.

]]> By: kayecasupanan http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/comment-page-2/#comment-20656 kayecasupanan Mon, 05 Sep 2011 04:39:43 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/#comment-20656 And am I the one who has the right to decide because my son is with me and that I am the one providing for his everyday needs? And am I the one who has the right to decide because my son is with me and that I am the one providing for his everyday needs?

]]> By: kayecasupanan http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/comment-page-2/#comment-20654 kayecasupanan Sat, 03 Sep 2011 03:17:20 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/#comment-20654 Hi, I am a mother of a two year old boy, my husband and I separated just a month ago. My son is in my custody. But, we are having trouble and almost a fight on arrangements to the child. I just want to know, who should be the one to be deciding when it comes to our child? "The law categorically provides that no child under seven years of age shall be separated from the mother, unless the court finds compelling reasons to order otherwise (Article 213, Family Code)." - does this law apply to married but separated couples? like us? Hi, I am a mother of a two year old boy, my husband and I separated just a month ago. My son is in my custody. But, we are having trouble and almost a fight on arrangements to the child. I just want to know, who should be the one to be deciding when it comes to our child? “The law categorically provides that no child under seven years of age shall be separated from the mother, unless the court finds compelling reasons to order otherwise (Article 213, Family Code).” – does this law apply to married but separated couples? like us?

]]> By: suzet http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/comment-page-2/#comment-20588 suzet Tue, 09 Aug 2011 10:33:03 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/#comment-20588 i have a brother who have a twin son.but the mother of this baby is married to another guy.i want to know what is our chance and right to give us the custody of this children. i have a brother who have a twin son.but the mother of this baby is married to another guy.i want to know what is our chance and right to give us the custody of this children.

]]> By: vynne http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/comment-page-2/#comment-13512 vynne Mon, 10 May 2010 00:26:48 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/#comment-13512 Does a stepmother have the right for custody on her husband's biological son in case of his death or mental insanity? Does a stepmother have the right for custody on her husband’s biological son in case of his death or mental insanity?

]]> By: A brief discussion on Infidelity, Concubinage, Adultery and Bigamy at Philippine e-Legal Forum http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/comment-page-2/#comment-13204 A brief discussion on Infidelity, Concubinage, Adultery and Bigamy at Philippine e-Legal Forum Mon, 23 Nov 2009 09:52:00 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/child-custody-infidelity-of-mother/#comment-13204 [...] separation or filing a case for adultery/concubinage. As to custody, the Supreme Court already ruled that sexual infidelity, by itself, is not sufficient to grant custody over a child. Let’s [...] [...] separation or filing a case for adultery/concubinage. As to custody, the Supreme Court already ruled that sexual infidelity, by itself, is not sufficient to grant custody over a child. Let’s [...]

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