Comments on: Can someone remarry even without going to court due to absence or separation? http://jlp-law.com/blog/can-someone-remarry-even-without-going-to-court-due-to-absence-or-separation/ Philippine laws and legal system (JLP-Law blog) Sat, 19 May 2012 09:49:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Lyn http://jlp-law.com/blog/can-someone-remarry-even-without-going-to-court-due-to-absence-or-separation/comment-page-3/#comment-22225 Lyn Mon, 23 Apr 2012 21:37:34 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/?p=524#comment-22225 Good Day to all. I got married to a British national in NOV 2006 in angeles pampanga, and after only 3 months he left after we had argument about his real person and never saw him again. He have threatened me through chat and email, financially and emotionally crippled me. When i heard from him late DEC 2007 only to receive email with copy of his marriage certificate to another woman in UK. And when i ask him why did he not get divorce first his reply was he never registered our marriage in UK so no reason for him to file divorce and he does not plan to come back and pay for annulment he wanted me to suffer and not be able to re-marry or have a life. I was told that if he gets divorce in UK it will be honored here. So one time i was able to scare him of bigamy and get him to talk to divorce lawyer in UK but after they sent me draft of proposed divorce and after i sent them documents they ask for i got message from his solicitors saying that my ex or husband did not go back and not pushed through with the case. He knew i do not have the capability to file case because i don't have enough money, so he just played and fooled me to believing that he was going to take care of it. What kind of law or country do we have if it can not even protect the rights of it's citizens. I am financially broke, i have one daughter from previous relationship who is in college and can not afford to file annulment or even bigamy since i do not know how he can be persecuted, it has been almost 5 years am suffering from abandonment and not being able to move on and have new life due to our Philippine laws. And because i had been in the news long time ago, i am so ashamed to even file a case afraid of what people might say. I am BEGGING Law makers please don't stop pushing divorce law, and if anyone can help me. I need advice. Is there a way for me to file bigamy and annulment without having to pay big money? Can a PAO help me? I hope that our bishops and priest consider and think of cases like mine before they say NO to divorce. I' am a catholic, but sometimes I even think of becoming a Muslim just so i can get divorce and have fair chance in life like foreigners do. May God Bless Us All.... Thank you very much.. Good Day to all.
I got married to a British national in NOV 2006 in angeles pampanga, and after only 3 months he left after we had argument about his real person and never saw him again. He have threatened me through chat and email, financially and emotionally crippled me. When i heard from him late DEC 2007 only to receive email with copy of his marriage certificate to another woman in UK. And when i ask him why did he not get divorce first his reply was he never registered our marriage in UK so no reason for him to file divorce and he does not plan to come back and pay for annulment he wanted me to suffer and not be able to re-marry or have a life. I was told that if he gets divorce in UK it will be honored here. So one time i was able to scare him of bigamy and get him to talk to divorce lawyer in UK but after they sent me draft of proposed divorce and after i sent them documents they ask for i got message from his solicitors saying that my ex or husband did not go back and not pushed through with the case. He knew i do not have the capability to file case because i don’t have enough money, so he just played and fooled me to believing that he was going to take care of it. What kind of law or country do we have if it can not even protect the rights of it’s citizens. I am financially broke, i have one daughter from previous relationship who is in college and can not afford to file annulment or even bigamy since i do not know how he can be persecuted, it has been almost 5 years am suffering from abandonment and not being able to move on and have new life due to our Philippine laws. And because i had been in the news long time ago, i am so ashamed to even file a case afraid of what people might say. I am BEGGING Law makers please don’t stop pushing divorce law, and if anyone can help me. I need advice. Is there a way for me to file bigamy and annulment without having to pay big money? Can a PAO help me? I hope that our bishops and priest consider and think of cases like mine before they say NO to divorce. I’ am a catholic, but sometimes I even think of becoming a Muslim just so i can get divorce and have fair chance in life like foreigners do. May God Bless Us All…. Thank you very much..

]]> By: reyes http://jlp-law.com/blog/can-someone-remarry-even-without-going-to-court-due-to-absence-or-separation/comment-page-3/#comment-22221 reyes Mon, 23 Apr 2012 19:40:29 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/?p=524#comment-22221 atty.just want know kng pwede pba akong magpkasal ulit?im already 10 yrs seperated with my husband and no communication and support to my daughter.Im working now in abroad to support my daughter in all her needs,since i came here to abroad i use all my documents as a single status even im married in phil.do u think i can marry again in other country except phil? atty.just want know kng pwede pba akong magpkasal ulit?im already 10 yrs seperated with my husband and no communication and support to my daughter.Im working now in abroad to support my daughter in all her needs,since i came here to abroad i use all my documents as a single status even im married in phil.do u think i can marry again in other country except phil?

]]> By: pauline khyle http://jlp-law.com/blog/can-someone-remarry-even-without-going-to-court-due-to-absence-or-separation/comment-page-3/#comment-22134 pauline khyle Mon, 26 Mar 2012 11:28:20 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/?p=524#comment-22134 Dear Sir, My husband and I are not leaving together for 5yrs now. He is not supporting our kids and not even bothering checking them. But his parents,who are in New Jersey are continuously sending support specially materials things to my kids. We have 8yrs old and 6yrs old daughter. Our youngest is almost 1Omos when we started not living together,but before that happens he was asked by my mother if there is another woman and he clearly said yes.And told my mom to take me and my kids because he can't give whatever we need and he can't leave the girl. Last year I intended to discussed with him about our arrangement with our kids, he replied that we will talk once he is settle because he said that time he doesn't have work and cant even raise himself. Since then he didn't email back. How can I consider that we are legally separated? Can I remarry? What are the needful so I can have a new life, me and my kids. As I wanted to have a complete family,so if there will be someone who can accept my kids and offer marriage,what can I do? How can I say yes in this kind of situation I have? Please I need your legal advise. Dear Sir,

My husband and I are not leaving together for 5yrs now. He is not supporting our kids and not even bothering checking them. But his parents,who are in New Jersey are continuously sending support specially materials things to my kids. We have 8yrs old and 6yrs old daughter. Our youngest is almost 1Omos when we started not living together,but before that happens he was asked by my mother if there is another woman and he clearly said yes.And told my mom to take me and my kids because he can’t give whatever we need and he can’t leave the girl.

Last year I intended to discussed with him about our arrangement with our kids, he replied that we will talk once he is settle because he said that time he doesn’t have work and cant even raise himself. Since then he didn’t email back.

How can I consider that we are legally separated? Can I remarry? What are the needful so I can have a new life, me and my kids. As I wanted to have a complete family,so if there will be someone who can accept my kids and offer marriage,what can I do? How can I say yes in this kind of situation I have? Please I need your legal advise.

]]> By: creezie http://jlp-law.com/blog/can-someone-remarry-even-without-going-to-court-due-to-absence-or-separation/comment-page-3/#comment-21935 creezie Sun, 29 Jan 2012 20:03:30 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/?p=524#comment-21935 Dear Sir, A very good day! This is regarding about my marriage on 1999. That from year 2001 up to present me and my two son’s was been abandoned by my husband. No call, no letter, No Supports nothing at all. He was in japan when we lost connection with him but after few years he comes back to philippines but never visited us or even call us. The sad part that I discovered was he was hiding from us, so I don’t want to waste my time with him, I have my kids to look after and prepare for their future, then I decided to move on alone with my kids, I was a single mom and proud that im supporting my kids alone and surviving. They are both studying and doing well, my parents were looking after them as I have to work abroad to support them. What I want to do is to make a legal seperation with my husband. Lots of my friends are telling that my marriage is already null or void as my husband abandoned us for more than 11years, but will that be possible that my marriage is already null or void after 11years without any communication from him? I want everything to be legal that whatever I will do in the future he cannot go behind me or to my kids and he cannot bother us. im just thinking if i can do even a legal separation, will i be able to get married again in future?. Please help me with this matter and can I do this matter even im out of country? I might come this year for 30days vacation. I will greatly appreciate it if you can help me or give me a advice. Awaiting for your reply. Dear Sir,

A very good day!

This is regarding about my marriage on 1999. That from year 2001 up to present me and my two son’s was been abandoned by my husband. No call, no letter, No Supports nothing at all. He was in japan when we lost connection with him but after few years he comes back to philippines but never visited us or even call us. The sad part that I discovered was he was hiding from us, so I don’t want to waste my time with him, I have my kids to look after and prepare for their future, then I decided to move on alone with my kids, I was a single mom and proud that im supporting my kids alone and surviving. They are both studying and doing well, my parents were looking after them as I have to work abroad to support them. What I want to do is to make a legal seperation with my husband. Lots of my friends are telling that my marriage is already null or void as my husband abandoned us for more than 11years, but will that be possible that my marriage is already null or void after 11years without any communication from him? I want everything to be legal that whatever I will do in the future he cannot go behind me or to my kids and he cannot bother us. im just thinking if i can do even a legal separation, will i be able to get married again in future?. Please help me with this matter and can I do this matter even im out of country? I might come this year for 30days vacation. I will greatly appreciate it if you can help me or give me a advice.

Awaiting for your reply.

]]> By: chadleen http://jlp-law.com/blog/can-someone-remarry-even-without-going-to-court-due-to-absence-or-separation/comment-page-3/#comment-21910 chadleen Wed, 18 Jan 2012 15:24:49 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/?p=524#comment-21910 dear sir, as for me,, we got married on june 1993. when he was 18 and i was 20.. first @ manila city hall w/o parents consent then come october 1993.. parents decided to have a church wedding for us..we live separately after a year.. he visits me and our son during weekends but he stayed at his parents house.. in 1999.. we decided to end the marriage and live separately since then w/o communication...i heard he's already living w/ someone and i too have a new relationship of my own.. is our marriage null and void? applicable po ba sa akin ung article 83 ng family code? its been 13 years na kami hiwalay.. pwede po ba ako lumapit sa PAO for help? since wala po aq permanent na work at ang partner ko po ang nagwwrk for us.. dear sir,
as for me,, we got married on june 1993. when he was 18 and i was 20.. first @ manila city hall w/o parents consent then come october 1993.. parents decided to have a church wedding for us..we live separately after a year.. he visits me and our son during weekends but he stayed at his parents house.. in 1999.. we decided to end the marriage and live separately since then w/o communication…i heard he’s already living w/ someone and i too have a new relationship of my own.. is our marriage null and void? applicable po ba sa akin ung article 83 ng family code? its been 13 years na kami hiwalay.. pwede po ba ako lumapit sa PAO for help? since wala po aq permanent na work at ang partner ko po ang nagwwrk for us..

]]> By: oshi http://jlp-law.com/blog/can-someone-remarry-even-without-going-to-court-due-to-absence-or-separation/comment-page-3/#comment-21060 oshi Tue, 08 Nov 2011 23:07:04 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/?p=524#comment-21060 Dear attorney, OFW ho ako na may permanent residency d2 sa europe. waiting ho ako sa nationality ko at declared na married sa mister ko. on the rock kmi ng ilang taon but we agree na mag usap sapag uwe ko last dec 2010 but he didn´t show up. i tried to call him pero binastos ako and he hang up the phone yun ang last na pag uusap nmin. 2 mos ago i just found out na nagpaksal sia sa pinay na american citizen na. bale 2010 pa sila kinasal nuon 2nd nia. at sinabi nila sa friends and relatives na annulled ang ksal nmin. almost a year nrin na sia ay nsa us. tanong ko lang po since bigamy ang kaso nia puede ho ba na ma ideport sia dhil narin sa falsification of docs. if proven na may MC sila sa NSO may effect ho ba ang ksalan nila since american citizen yun girl at declared na married ako sa knya d2 sa europe. may conjugal properties at sa kanya lahat naka name, yun loan nmin may marital consent ho yun nang i apply nmin sa pag ibig later na found out ko na pinalitan nia ang docs ng married to single contract. yun ibang transaction nia ay single nadin b4 ng nd marriage nia. maling information ho ang sinabi skin ng family nia at nakakuha ako ng ma photos nila na aware sila sa ksalan naganap. ano po ang unang dpat kong gawin. Dear attorney,

OFW ho ako na may permanent residency d2 sa europe. waiting ho ako sa nationality ko at declared na married sa mister ko. on the rock kmi ng ilang taon but we agree na mag usap sapag uwe ko last dec 2010 but he didn´t show up. i tried to call him pero binastos ako and he hang up the phone yun ang last na pag uusap nmin. 2 mos ago i just found out na nagpaksal sia sa pinay na american citizen na. bale 2010 pa sila kinasal nuon 2nd nia. at sinabi nila sa friends and relatives na annulled ang ksal nmin. almost a year nrin na sia ay nsa us. tanong ko lang po since bigamy ang kaso nia puede ho ba na ma ideport sia dhil narin sa falsification of docs. if proven na may MC sila sa NSO may effect ho ba ang ksalan nila since american citizen yun girl at declared na married ako sa knya d2 sa europe. may conjugal properties at sa kanya lahat naka name, yun loan nmin may marital consent ho yun nang i apply nmin sa pag ibig later na found out ko na pinalitan nia ang docs ng married to single contract. yun ibang transaction nia ay single nadin b4 ng nd marriage nia. maling information ho ang sinabi skin ng family nia at nakakuha ako ng ma photos nila na aware sila sa ksalan naganap. ano po ang unang dpat kong gawin.

]]> By: confusegirl http://jlp-law.com/blog/can-someone-remarry-even-without-going-to-court-due-to-absence-or-separation/comment-page-3/#comment-20784 confusegirl Sun, 09 Oct 2011 03:09:53 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/?p=524#comment-20784 magkano po ba gastos kung kukuha po ako ng declaration of presumptive death of absent spouse? 7 years na po kasi nakakaraan nung huli ko pong makita asawa ko.. magkano po ba gastos kung kukuha po ako ng declaration of presumptive death of absent spouse? 7 years na po kasi nakakaraan nung huli ko pong makita asawa ko..

]]> By: jhenn http://jlp-law.com/blog/can-someone-remarry-even-without-going-to-court-due-to-absence-or-separation/comment-page-3/#comment-20672 jhenn Fri, 09 Sep 2011 18:33:21 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/?p=524#comment-20672 i just want to ask because my bf got married on year 1993..and it was a shotgun wedding and and been separated for 15yrs.. and he never expected that it was registered. and when we checked in NSO he was married.. is that marriage still valid, even if they had never seen each other for 15yrs..? or he still have to file for annullment? i need your advice... thanks i just want to ask because my bf got married on year 1993..and it was a shotgun wedding and and been separated for 15yrs.. and he never expected that it was registered. and when we checked in NSO he was married.. is that marriage still valid, even if they had never seen each other for 15yrs..? or he still have to file for annullment? i need your advice… thanks

]]> By: ditas http://jlp-law.com/blog/can-someone-remarry-even-without-going-to-court-due-to-absence-or-separation/comment-page-2/#comment-20549 ditas Thu, 21 Jul 2011 07:51:05 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/?p=524#comment-20549 I have been separated with my husband for almost 10 years now. Since then we don't have any communication what step will i going take to make our marriages null and void? I have been separated with my husband for almost 10 years now. Since then we don’t have any communication what step will i going take to make our marriages null and void?

]]> By: ania2011 http://jlp-law.com/blog/can-someone-remarry-even-without-going-to-court-due-to-absence-or-separation/comment-page-2/#comment-19990 ania2011 Tue, 22 Feb 2011 10:12:48 +0000 http://jlp-law.com/blog/?p=524#comment-19990 Atty Fred, Hello how are you, im looking for a lawyer that can help me for my case, i am 4 years seperated to my exhusband and im planning to file an annulment and remarry, how long is the process if i start next year and how much cost i need to spend for all processesing, do i need to stay in Philippines to do all this process? Because i am in Dubai now for work. I wanted to change my status as a single person, because until now im still using the name of my exhusband, but i dont know where to start thats why im asking for an advice. And i have a boyfriend now and we are planning to get married, but we are not living together because of my work, can u help us to settle my case to have a legal papers to remarry? Please advice me where to start, do i need to file annulment or i can ask the court for a declaration of presumptive death? in 4 years i dont have any communication to my exhusband. Im looking forward for your response. Thank you! Atty Fred,

Hello how are you, im looking for a lawyer that can help me for my case, i am 4 years seperated to my exhusband and im planning to file an annulment and remarry, how long is the process if i start next year and how much cost i need to spend for all processesing, do i need to stay in Philippines to do all this process? Because i am in Dubai now for work.

I wanted to change my status as a single person, because until now im still using the name of my exhusband, but i dont know where to start thats why im asking for an advice. And i have a boyfriend now and we are planning to get married, but we are not living together because of my work, can u help us to settle my case to have a legal papers to remarry?

Please advice me where to start, do i need to file annulment or i can ask the court for a declaration of presumptive death? in 4 years i dont have any communication to my exhusband.

Im looking forward for your response.
Thank you!

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